How To Know If Someone Is Cheating On You

The things you can do to avoid your partner from cheating on you is to find out why he or she wants to cheat or have ever thought about cheating. The only way to do this is to TALK TO YOUR PARTNER!! Be open and honest and let them know that whatever it may be that you both can work it out and get it through it. If the relationship is worth it, then both of you all can work it out and get throught it.

What is cheating?

Cheating-refers to the breaking of rules to gain advantage in a competitive situation. (Wikipedia)

There are many ways to find out if your boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating by a few signs I know of and you will know for sure if him or her is cheating or not.

• First, if you don't spend a lot of time with your partner and he or she doesn't acknowledge that you are there like saying I love you or kissing you, this is a sign of possible cheating.

• Second, if he or she does not like you to even come near 10 feet of their phone, this is a sign of possible cheating.

• Third, if he or she spends more than 4 hours away from after work or of just hanging out, this is a sign of possible cheating. (This is big hint that they are cheating, no one in a relationship will be away for this long if they were not cheating)

• Fourth, if he or she comes home with a cologne or perfume smell on them that is not theirs this a big red alert that they are cheating because no one will get that close to your partner without kissing them or doing something else with them. I'll make an exception, it could be their mom or dad or someone they know, but here is another hint. If they take too long to tell you where the smell came from, it is a giveaway that they are cheating.

• Fifth, if he or she is very distant and does not have intimacy with you, they are cheating. Your partner will do this because they have already been with someone and is too tired from what they did. (This is a big red flag that they are cheating).

  I hope that this doesn't happen to anyone like it has happened to me, but it is better to know than to not know. You never know it might save your life with AIDS being a number 1 killer amongst many people today. Make sure you get yourself checked out if you have found out that your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating and do not do anything crazy. Just walk away from the situation, it is not WORTH IT!!

After you have found out the person you loved has cheated then the only thing you can do is leave it alone and move on. That person has chose what they really want to do and you need to take yourself out that situation and find your happiness. It may not come then but it will come. Now if you feel that it was a mistake and you want to forgive your partner then go ahead and do so but know it will take some time to get over and be prepared for the tough days. Once you let it go, then let it go. Don't bring it up time and time again, because you and your partner won't be able to heal and move on from that. Trust me I know and I've been through this before, so it is not easy!! If you feel it is worth it, then go ahead and do what's best for you..